10-06-2005, 12:12 AM
If a woman wants you, nothing can keep her away. If she doesn't want you,
nothing can make her stay.
Stop making excuses for a woman and her behavior. Allow your intuition
(or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to
be. Slower is better.
Never live your life for a woman before you find what makes you truly
happy.
If a relationship ends because the woman was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends" A friend wouldn't
mistreat a friend. Don't settle.
If you feel like she is stringing you along, then she probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid women who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
men. She didn't marry them when she got pregnant, why would she
treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from her.
Maintain boundaries in how a girl treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a woman know everything.* She will use it against you later.
You cannot change a woman's behavior.* Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make her feel she is more important than you are... even if
she has more education or is in a better job.
Do not make her into a quasi-goddess. She is a woman, nothing more nothing
less.
Never let a woman define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's woman. If she cheated with you, she'll cheat on
you.
A woman will only treat you the way you ALLOW her to treat you.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two
way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone
complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if she doesn't turn out to be the right one.
Make her miss you sometimes...when a woman always know where you are,
and you're always readily available to her - she takes it for granted.
Never move into her mother's house.
Never co-sign for a woman.
Don't fully commit to a woman who doesn't give you everything that you
need.
Keep her in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other men... You'll make someone smile, another
rethink his choices, and another man prepare.
nothing can make her stay.
Stop making excuses for a woman and her behavior. Allow your intuition
(or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to
be. Slower is better.
Never live your life for a woman before you find what makes you truly
happy.
If a relationship ends because the woman was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends" A friend wouldn't
mistreat a friend. Don't settle.
If you feel like she is stringing you along, then she probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid women who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
men. She didn't marry them when she got pregnant, why would she
treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from her.
Maintain boundaries in how a girl treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a woman know everything.* She will use it against you later.
You cannot change a woman's behavior.* Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make her feel she is more important than you are... even if
she has more education or is in a better job.
Do not make her into a quasi-goddess. She is a woman, nothing more nothing
less.
Never let a woman define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's woman. If she cheated with you, she'll cheat on
you.
A woman will only treat you the way you ALLOW her to treat you.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two
way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone
complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if she doesn't turn out to be the right one.
Make her miss you sometimes...when a woman always know where you are,
and you're always readily available to her - she takes it for granted.
Never move into her mother's house.
Never co-sign for a woman.
Don't fully commit to a woman who doesn't give you everything that you
need.
Keep her in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other men... You'll make someone smile, another
rethink his choices, and another man prepare.