[ANTHONYD]

I just had a good conversation with Jen about it. She's not overly thrilled about the whole thing either :(

It's really unfortunate because when Jennifer and I annonced it to the family we were getting married, the world stopped. Her mom phoned everyone she knew, her Dad spoke to me on the phone personally and congratulated me etc... and this time, the family is just so blazàabout it. If the family were so ho-hum about me and Jennifer, I'd have been asking some pretty heavy question pretty damn quick.

The whole suggestion about calling her out when she belittles him in front of the family / public is a good idea. We all talk as a family about these instances AFTER they happen when they're not around. I've personally been quiet about the whole thing lately. The family knows how I feel about her, I don;t need to keep bringing it up anymore. They do that themselves.

I dunno guys, I can't help to feel my brother may getting into something far greater than he understands. If things are s***ty before you get married....they're going to be s***ty after you say your vows.

I just wish I could accept it.
But I can't.