[meford4u]

You have to have large balls to do this.

I've been through this twice.
Once with a buddy (I told him, I was in the wedding party) and once with my sister (I didn't speak up)
Both mariages ended in disaster within 18 months.
My sister tells me I should have spoke up. I didn't like the guy. I did however tell her I wasn't excited about the fact they were getting married after 12 months of dating. And he was away travelling for 6 of those months.
And my buddy, he was quite pissed at me. But he got over it. But she drew a wedge between us and we drifted apart as friends quickly. She was so possesive of him it drove him to the brink of insanity. Remember the guy who set the mosques on fire? That was my buddy. They eventually broke up but we never reconciled. Life moves forward as difficult as things may be, there are always different paths and adventures with new friends around the corner.
Kinda like breakin up with you guys.