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Well, this thread's gone for a s***ter already but for what it's worth, congratulations Char and Ticketz.

Don't know either one of you but I say congrats anyway. I hope you enjoy your child together and are able to coexist in his life even though you're not together anymore. I wish you the best of luck in raising your kid. Hope everything is fair between you for support visitation etc.

Do your kid a favour and don't use him as a pawn towards eachother, it's not fair to him. My best friends son hates him now because his mother uses him as a pawn all the time and it got to be a pita and the kid figured it out and figures his dad only sees him because his mom bitches him out all the time about taking responsibilties, like $300 a month in support that she uses for herself and then demanding he takes the kid every weekend now in addition to that. So that makes a 6 hr round trip every friday and sunday that neither the kid nor my friend really wants to do right now.