Hi, Guest
06-21-2007, 09:47 PM
Just keep him level (no excessive booze, no drugs) as mentioned and get him to a psychiatrist quick. He sounds like a house of cards in a room with all the windows open... something will happen and suddenly at that.
As for her leaving, either he never gave you the whole story or she really is that cold-hearted. If she's cutting everything off at the knees like that then chances are she really won't get back together with him. Oscar and I experienced that with a mutual friend under the same damn circumstances, albeit with a little more warning and obvious fighting. She cut it off one day and it was all too clear that she wasn't coming back.
Be there for him, but beware that taking care of him doesn't place too much strain on your own life. People can become conduits of emotion, willingly and unwillingly, and sometimes those same problems can start to cause you grief too.
Good luck man, it's a hard road.
As for her leaving, either he never gave you the whole story or she really is that cold-hearted. If she's cutting everything off at the knees like that then chances are she really won't get back together with him. Oscar and I experienced that with a mutual friend under the same damn circumstances, albeit with a little more warning and obvious fighting. She cut it off one day and it was all too clear that she wasn't coming back.
Be there for him, but beware that taking care of him doesn't place too much strain on your own life. People can become conduits of emotion, willingly and unwillingly, and sometimes those same problems can start to cause you grief too.
Good luck man, it's a hard road.
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33" BFG Mud-Terrain KM2s, lots of Rough Country gear - bumper, 2.5" lift, swaybar disconnects, Superwinch 10,000lb winch, Detroit Locker in rear D44 axle, custom exhaust, K+N filtercharger, Superchips-tuned.
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33" BFG Mud-Terrain KM2s, lots of Rough Country gear - bumper, 2.5" lift, swaybar disconnects, Superwinch 10,000lb winch, Detroit Locker in rear D44 axle, custom exhaust, K+N filtercharger, Superchips-tuned.
Daily driver 2: 2006 Subaru Legacy GT
COBB Stage 1+ package - AccessPort tuner, COBB intake and airbox. Stage 2 coming shortly - COBB 3" AT stainless DP and race cat, custom 3" Magnaflow-based exhaust and Stage 2 COBB tune.