[meford4u]

Sometimes you just have to be a little backhanded for your own good.

Don't redo her work and let her fail on her own two feet and maybe you will slide into that position. They(those in the corporate hierarchy) probably see the entire job as getting done to satisfaction of the client and she becomes the "hero" as a leader who "gets the job done". Well don't help her get the job done and let her merits be shown for what they are.

As for the g/f, fawk, women always have an idea of what they want, but change their minds at the drop of a hat. 1 year plan, 3 year plan, you don't need a friggin plan in life! Life is what you make it and sometimes your thrown a curve ball. So live in the now, save for the later and enjoy each other while you can. Tell her that if she has a 1 year plan, you have a 3 year plan, there could be some comprimise on both parties. If she ends the relationship with you now, then she has to start the hunt again and a new plan. If she's the right one, the two of you should have figured that out by now.