08-16-2005, 02:56 AM
:o Wow, I've been there too Anthony... I never knew who I was coming home to - the nasty bitch, or the semi-nice g/f. It's as if the one time out of ten that she is sweet makes up for all the b/s and, exactly, you become desensitized.
I'm sorry to hear he's stuck in that rut... all my friends told me she was a bitch, my mother (who loves the entire planet) insisted I 'evaluate' my relationship, etc... it never hits home until the light comes on yourself, then it's a matter of figuring out what's next. It's a shitty road but in the end makes you either much stronger or eternally pissed.
Advice?... show him what a good time is again (whatever that means), so perhaps he can see what he's missing by being unknowingly caged. I don't know, just throwing something out there. Stay persistent.
sux. :angry:
I'm sorry to hear he's stuck in that rut... all my friends told me she was a bitch, my mother (who loves the entire planet) insisted I 'evaluate' my relationship, etc... it never hits home until the light comes on yourself, then it's a matter of figuring out what's next. It's a shitty road but in the end makes you either much stronger or eternally pissed.
Advice?... show him what a good time is again (whatever that means), so perhaps he can see what he's missing by being unknowingly caged. I don't know, just throwing something out there. Stay persistent.
sux. :angry:
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