[naz]

before filling up your trans with mega bling synthetic fluid thinking it will make things better.. i'd do a ton of research before doing that... subaru != ford but on a sube a lot of those fluids really kill the trans quickly.. seriously... it might not be worth the money.. before read before dropping the cash...

and my focus had 100k kms when i sold it and i had 0 trans or clutch problems.. the car saw autoX use, couple of 1/4 mile passes to get a 16s slip (woo hoo!) and hard street driving and no problems...

i know this sound stupid.. but maybe try making sure the pedal is all the way to the floor before moving the shift lever, and making some attempt at rev matching when downshifting?